If You Become Friends with your Customers, Act Like a Friend, not a Business

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Joseph Jaffe, Chief Interruptor at Crayon and one of the leading specialists in conversational marketing and social media, recently had a really bad experience with American Express and took the time to rant about it for a few minutes on his online TV channel.  He got upset at American Express for doing something to him that any credit card company or business would do in that situation.  The only difference is, that Amex differentiated themselves as a company who cares.

Watch this video and you’ll see what I mean:

You’ll notice that he was upset because they claimed to be  “Open” for small businesses, that they understand their customers, the spirit of the entrepreneur and the American dream.  American Express opened their arms and offered friendship to small businesses and Jaffe accepted.

After the friendship started and his credit card and limit were in hand, Amex came over to him and began to act like a business by asking for all of his personal information and tax records.  Multiple personalities if you ask me and nobody wants to be friends with someone that’s only your friend some of the time.

At the end of the story, his credit card was declined because he was $16 over his limit.  For a business, over the limit is over the limit.  They have rules and must follow them.  For a friend, $16 is nothing and would quickly be forgiven.  Jaffe was not upset that a business was following rules, he was upset that his good friend just stabbed him in the back and made him look like a fool when he was checking into the Renaissance Hotel in Orlando.

Jaffe points out that there “was no courtesy call, no courtesy message, no courtesy text message”, all things you would expect from a friend, or a business you consider your friend.  A company that cares would never do this to their customers.

If a company says “we’ll give you the world” and then disappoints you on even one point, they will lose their customers.  If a company says “i’ll give you ‘X’” and then gives you “X” and “Y”, they have made a friend, possibly for life if they keep it up.

Consistency is a Must

Consistency is extremely important.  People want to know what they are getting when they make a purchase.   Michael Gerber in the E-myth Revisited mentions that the success of McDonalds is because of their system and consistency.  When a customer visits the store, they know exactly what they are going to get.  If the customer has a great sandwich the first time but the same sandwich the next time is not as good, he will subconsciously stop going to that restaurant.

We are in a world where social relationships rule and traditional one-way company monologues are on their deathbed.  Customers would always prefer to give their business to a friend as opposed to a corporation.  As a company, becoming friends with your customers is a smart move and the friendship will gain their loyalty.  Just make sure that if you become friends with your customers, you act like a friend and not a business.

You Can’t Be Anonymous Online, So Be Yourself!

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I want to clear up a huge misconception about the internet:

You are not anonymous online, no matter how hard you try to hide your identity.

Everything you do online is recorded and traced back to your computer with the time and date stamped on it.  Everything you post online is indexed by the search engines and is there forever.  You may not even remember the time that you used a nickname years ago but if you ever use the nickname again, Google will make the connection.  You don’t have to be a detective anymore to find the clues, the search engines do the work for you.

You Can Find Anything Online

I am one of the admins for a blog that received a nasty comment.  When looking into it, I noticed that the name given in the comment was the equivalent of a “John Smith”.  Just for the fun of it, I took all the information that was provided in the comment and entered it into Google.  Within 2 minutes and 3 or 4 quick searches, I narrowed my search for the commenter down to a person who lives within a few blocks of the blog owner along with his full name, address, phone number, possible relatives, websites he recently visited, his current job and his work history.  I’m not going to do anything with the information but I’m just saying that it is all out there and easily searchable.

Most People Leave Their Digital Fingerprints All Over the Net

Most people, whether they realize it or not leave some sort of digital fingerprint when they comment online.  They may use a certain alias or user ID (when trying to be anonymous), use a word or expression that can be traced back to them or some other piece of evidence they can leave without realizing it.  It may even be different variations of a word such as adding a number or using that word for an email address on several providers (yahoo, hotmail, aol…) Any of that information can lead you right to the commenter.  If all else fails, the internet provider can be court ordered to surrender the commenter’s identity if need be.

Participate Online as Yourself

That being said, there is no reason to be afraid of getting online if you are honest and authentic.  Treat the online world as you would treat the offline world.  Be transparent and friendly and you will attract friends and loyal fans.  If you choose not to be transparent, your customers will be wary and if you try to do something anonymously, you will be found out.  It’s just so easy.

So go ahead and participate online.  Just please, do yourself a favour and be yourself.

Once You Press Send You Can Never Take It Back

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Everything You Say Online Stays Online… Forever

As Peter Parker/Spiderman’s Uncle Ben once said “with great power, comes great responsibility”. In this digital age, we all have a “great power”, the power of our voices. Anyone in the world can have his opinion heard and it is as simple as commenting on a blog post or video online. What many people don’t realize though is that once you use your voice, you can’t really take back what you said. Every webpage, post and comment is indexed in Google and other search engines and will probably be around forever in one form or another.

E-mail Can Be Just As Public As The Rest Of The Web

E-mail as well can be a tool to project your voice. Even if you just send an e-mail to one individual, it doesn’t mean that he won’t forward it to the rest of the world. Once you press “send” you can never take it back.

News Spreads At the Speed of Light

Yesterday I received an email from an organization that was sent to their entire mailing list about an event which I thought was pretty important. Immediately after receiving the e-mail, I posted it to Facebook, tagged all the local people I could find and then asked people to spread the word. Within less than an hour, three other major organizations sent out the exact message word for word to their entire mailing lists. A few minutes after that, I got a call from the original sender who told me that the event was not supposed to be on such a large scale and they wanted to keep it a little quieter. My response was that first of all, if that was the case, they should have specified and second “once you press ‘send’ you can never take it back”.

Mail Goggles

A while ago, Google Labs (which I’m a big fan of), introduced Mail Goggles as an optional add-on for Gmail. When enabled, Mail Goggles requires you to answer several math equations before being able to send emails at nighttime. This was created because too many people send emails out at night that they regret the next morning and can never take back.

Emails Gone Bad

Don’t think that just because you are friends or partners with someone that you can send them anything and it will be kept quiet. There are so many cases of blackmail and lawsuits based on these types of e-mails from friendships that fell apart. Every other week there is a case of teenagers sexting each other and causing major problems.

We all have a great power to use our voice but we also have the responsibility to think before we click “send” or “post”.

StumbleUpon Searches What’s Popular, Not What You Optimize

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In case there wasn’t enough competition for search on the internet, just weeks after Microsoft launched Bing, StumbleUpon launched their own search engine. For those of you that don’t know, StumbleUpon was originally, in the words of StumbleUpon CEO Garrett Camp “a site where you could click a button and discover interesting, personalized and highly relevant websites.”  Web surfers would be able to teach the system what they liked by giving a thumbs up or down to all the content that they stumbled upon.  After becoming extremely popular, StumbleUpon added an advertising feature where content creators could pay for their content to be included in people’s stumbles.  Finally, they have built up enough of a database that they feel they can compete in the search field.

In actuality, they are not competing directly with Bing and Google, rather they claim that they are a cross between Google and Twitter.  A place where you can search for relevant real time information and discussions.  This is great for the users and anyone who wants to search for popular topics in any category but may not be as great for the content creators.  If you have a highly trafficked block with tons of fans you may be ok or even well off but if you have been relying on SEO (search engine optimization) you may have a rude awakening.  If nobody is talking about you or your content, you will be nowhere to be found.

I don’t know if this is how the search will continue to work but it does give us a little glimpse into the future.  Cheap optimization tricks will not work for long and the only real way to get ahead is to be authentic, interesting and add value.  The more value that you provide, the better.

In general, search engines are getting smarter and catching onto the cheap tricks people use to try and get better ranking.  Just a few years ago, the most popular trick was to use white writing on a white background with hundreds of unrelated popular keywords to fool the search engine to thinking that your site had something to do with those words.  Search engine have come very far since then and they will not stop improving their search algorithms even when they are practically human.

Cheap tricks may get you so far but will never last.  True authenticity and great content will.

What does StumbleUpon’s search results say about you?